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Dependence - The reliance of others for physical, mental or emotional needs.
Independence- The ability to be self relaiant for physical, mental or emotional needs. Needing no one but oneself.
Interdependence- Having the confidence and self esteem to know that one is self reliant yet using the wisdom that working with others is the most advantagous way to achieve more for everyone.
-A thought from Steven Covey's 7 Useful Habits of Highly Effective People.-
Do you agree with these concepts and where do you feel you would be on this ladder?
Independence- The ability to be self relaiant for physical, mental or emotional needs. Needing no one but oneself.
Interdependence- Having the confidence and self esteem to know that one is self reliant yet using the wisdom that working with others is the most advantagous way to achieve more for everyone.
-A thought from Steven Covey's 7 Useful Habits of Highly Effective People.-
Do you agree with these concepts and where do you feel you would be on this ladder?
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Re: The Concept of Interdependence
Mon, July 20, 2009 - 5:10 PMMe personally by nature am independent.
I have found a person whom I have chosen to be interdependent with. By no means is this a requisite state.
Personally I think Covey's ladder is flawed. I am more in line with Maslow
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masl...y_of_needs
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Re: The Concept of Interdependence
Tue, July 21, 2009 - 4:41 PMDIFFERENCE, I couldn't quite place my finger on exactly why I've been so turned off by your recent posts (and as far as I can tell, you've only been posting here for a couple of weeks at most). I've read and re-read them in an effort to understand which button of mine is feeling pushed as well as why I'm seemingly sensitive to you in this way. You bring up some interesting topics. Discussions that I've had, and would like to continue having, but for some reason- when these issues are presented by you- I haven't felt the desire to jump into the conversation at all.
Until now.
And that's because I finally figured out why your posts seemingly rub me the wrong way. There is an air of superficial authority about them. You present observations or issues, ask pertinent questions about them from us- your audience for all intents and purposes- yet you seem to do it from a position of assumed superiority. I almost feel as if I'm either in an interrogation room or a job interview... or perhaps even a classroom where I'm supposed to blindly accept your take on the world and offer my own with some form of a pass/fail grading system.
So, I'm offering my perception of your posts here because I definitely experienced a bit of a knee-jerk reaction to them...which is why I chose not to contribute to any of them until I could discern what the hell was up with that. And, its possible others have experienced a similar reaction to your posts. I don't know. But what I DO KNOW is that, regardless of how benignly you present these topics, there is a tone to them that is off putting, at least to me and possibly to a few others. I believe this is worth noting in the event that you'd like to engage in any real, meaningful and effective dialogue with the likes of me. And if there are others in EH that experienced a reaction (and it appears there are at least a few) then perhaps finding a less offensive tone would be beneficial. However, I can only speak for myself.
The point is that I've find the subject of your posts interesting enough to warrant a second look, but upon opening said topics and reading through your verbiage, I found myself not wanting to engage in dialogue with you at all.
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Re: The Concept of Interdependence
Tue, July 21, 2009 - 4:52 PMI stopped because I got bored. It's like there's a personality type that joins tribes and just wants their views reinforced.... boring. It's only amusing if the zealot is so outrageously stupid that you converse just to see what they'll come up with. I know that sounds inhumane, but I have little pity for those who are willfully ignorant and refuse to take the needle off the broken record. -
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Re: The Concept of Interdependence
Tue, July 21, 2009 - 5:05 PMYes. We had someone like that a while ago...SAM=SAM, I believe was his moniker. That was on often painful debacle for me to witness. *sigh*
In fact, one of the reasons I continued reading DIFFERENCE's posts was because he reminded me a bit of SAM, at least in his use of all capital letters for his tribe handle. He also reminded me of that 17 y/o kid that popped in briefly last year. I was positively convinced that he WAS that 17 y/o kid until I read through some of his responses to other members. Actually, I'm still on the fence on that one....
-K
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Re: The Concept of Interdependence
Tue, July 21, 2009 - 7:02 PMthank you for your honesty K, I was unaware that I was putting off such a vibe, but it would explain alot. Ill do my best to put it in check and I appreciate you coming at it in a constructive manner. I definetly would like to have conversation with you in the future.
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