Wendigo the Whacko

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I just got back from Wal-Mart (oh the horror) and our local, crazy, homeless man, Wendigo was there - stealing socks and singing operatic love songs to a head of lettuce. It was an event. He used to haunt the library and bark like a rabid dog until Megan (librarian) told him that dogs weren't allowed in the library on days ending in "Y" and that seemed to work for him - no more barking...

But anyway - the guy is really harmless just mad as a hatter. To say his cheese slid off the proverbial cracker is an understatement. We have had him here for dinner before because he followed me home from the library one night. We all had to eat on the floor using only the blue plates and spoons... Try eating pork chops with spoons!!!

But I see a lot of people with their sideways glances and pity in their eyes. Mothers running away with their children (which in all honesty, I probably would too). But I envy him to some degree. He is not unhappy. Homeless, yes. But he doesn't care. We all feed him and kind of keep an eye on and out for him. Make sure he has places to stay when it gets cold (he sleeps at the park usually in the summertime). But in his own bizarre way he is so much more free than any of us. He lives in his own self induced reality and thrives - in his own way.

I think often times we all feel sorry for those that we view as "less fortunate" when really we may be missing the point entirely - and completely missing out on something truly extraordinary.

Or do I - with one foot in the looney bin - just have a romanticized vision of the whack job that looms just on the other side of the mirror?


What are you thoughts?
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  • Re: Wendigo the Whacko

    Fri, November 21, 2008 - 1:04 PM
    I think it's a little from column a, little from column b.

    I know two such characters that live in my town, both of whom
    are two of the most intense 'characters' I have ever met.

    Yes, they have 'freedom' - although if they have no means by which
    to attain that which they may desire, whatever it is, is that still freedom?
    Is it freedom to have to rely on others to provide us with what we need?
    Is it freedom to be in a societal position that causes people to shy away
    from you - or is that only freedom if said position is taken on by choice?

    People often romanticize those 'less fortunate' than themselves - look
    at famous, well loved works of literature like Oliver Twist - but unless
    said unfortunates themselves would classify their state as 'freedom',
    i wouldn't do so myself.
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      Re: Wendigo the Whacko

      Fri, November 21, 2008 - 1:10 PM
      Understood.

      I think in this case, he is so unaware of his circumstance that it seems not to affect him.

      Of course *seems not to* being the operative phrase there. Who knows what really goes on in that head of his.

      I get a kick out of him - he's a great guy.

      And though I don't wish to be in his shoes, I do sometimes wish I had the ability - or the mental defect as it were - to just not give a squat.

      But yes, you are right, freedom to one is a prison term for another.
    • Re: Wendigo the Whacko

      Sat, November 22, 2008 - 7:52 AM
      Yeah, totally well said Nicole.

      It seem to me that we can also become imprisoned by our own biology and history - whether it's being prone to addiction, trapped in a neurosis or by an illusion of our own brain. One thing that freaks people out about the homeless and mad is that it reminds us all that we're not actually independent, that we're interdependent even if we believe we're highly independent (and may be in some ways). It's more comforting for some people to blame the homeless person than recognize that we're all potentially vulnerable, fragile and that we live in a culture that has a tendency to dispose of and even despise members that aren't "useful" or as independent as us.
  • Re: Wendigo the Whacko

    Sat, November 22, 2008 - 8:37 AM
    There are plenty of harmless whackos out in the world. In particular, I remember the early 80s, when Reagan basically cut off government funding for mental health facilities and the residents of our local Allen Hall were forced into the streets.

    Unfortunately, though, many whackos who are quite visibly "free" of the boundaries of reality are that way as a result of schizophrenia, which is one of the most tragic illnesses I can think of.

    Tragic because it can create a functionally debilitating state in the which the sufferer cannot support themselves, it can cause the sufferer to act in unpredictable, sometimes murderous ways, but the worst of it (to me) is that it is so treatable with medication which is often impossible for the sufferer to get here in the good ol' unsocialized-medicine U S of A.

    Maybe Wendingo's happy. I sure hope so. But chances are that he's not happy in his whacked-ness all the time.
    • Re: Wendigo the Whacko

      Sat, November 22, 2008 - 9:00 AM
      Anne - Well said Anne. Wendingo aside, I suspect most of us have tendency to look at other people's lives and think others have got what we don't. I also suspect that it's easy to think we'd be free if we just didn't have responsibilities or have to work or whatever. Or rich, many people believe being rich makes one free. We've been sold "freedom" by an advertising industry and governmental propaganda machine that is actually using the meme to ensnare us in desire and ideology. The first step to freedom is quite possibly redefining the word/concept so it has meaning that is particular to who we are and what we need as individuals - rather than some illusive thing that we can buy from our gods and masters...if we give up our emotional and intellectual freedom and submit.
      • Re: Wendigo the Whacko

        Sat, November 22, 2008 - 4:33 PM
        im reminded of an old chestnut that my dad used to use: money is freedom.

        note, he did not say that money BUYS freedom, altho that is a common possibility. rather, that (in our current society) money is (ie - it DEFINES, is-defined-by, and/or is-equivalent-to) freedom.

        as far as wendigo, i do not envy him. i do not pity him. i have nary an interest in him (nor the other more-local equivalents to me). just as he has nary an interest in me. we (wendigo and i) live in different economic classes which allows different freedoms. i prefer to have this roof over my head and the ability to type onto computers every day... whether he would prefer this life i lead, i cannot say - youd have to ask him. and, unfortunately, youd then have to re-evaluate his response (bark-bark)...
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          Re: Wendigo the Whacko

          Sat, November 22, 2008 - 9:09 PM
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          I wonder what his perspective would be? Does he feel free? Perhaps he may feel just as trapped, by his circumstances.

          Rabbit
          I've asked him that. He does have moments of lucidity where you can actually talk to him, you just have to be able to follow a train of thought through the forest rather than on the rails. I have asked if he would like to have a home - he says no, he doesn't like living in boxes. A job, stability, food, etc. No, the universe provides. He really seems not to have the worries that we would all fret about. Granted, I know the seeming and the actuality of it all could be, in fact, very different things... But by his own words and actions, he seems to be at peace in his strange little world.
          • Re: Wendigo the Whacko

            Sat, November 22, 2008 - 10:46 PM
            >>at peace

            good for him. theres something to be said for such a buddhist-like stance to life. (and no, for the record, i am NOT trying to be snide/sarcastic/whatever-derogatory-term you want to imagine) i hope he continues to live life well in his own world, while i continue to struggle along in mine...

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