Describe yourself without using...

topic posted Fri, December 26, 2008 - 7:55 PM by  Unsubscribed
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...any of the usual adjectives you employ upon meeting someone for the first time.

This was an exercise we did during my Improv for the Spirit workshop last month. It was pretty bizarre. The first step is to write down all of the things you normally say when being introduced. I just wrote an "I am" at the top of the page and then listed all of the things I, or others, might offer as an explanation for my existence.
I am: a single mother; a chef; a student; a daughter...etc

Then begin a new "I am" list without using any of those terms. WOW! I found it pretty challenging myself. A few others seemed to have an easier time with it, and still others that couldn't seem to come up with anything remotely positive. Anyway, the reason I am posting this NOW, a full month later, is because it's one of the few things that keeps coming back to me IRL. It's been incredibly cathartic and freeing to intentionally avoid all of those "So, what do YOU do?" convo's and steer it into inquiries about some other person's self-perceived nature, or personality or abilities and talents. It's also made for some really amazing conversations.

*just a small disclaimer: this doesn't seem to have much of an effect on folks in the insurance or auto industries for some reason.

-K
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    Re: Describe yourself without using...

    Fri, December 26, 2008 - 8:16 PM
    Okay, I'll go first...and no, I'm not trying to turn this into some self-help forum. It's actually very much in keeping with the "EH" theme.

    I am:
    resourceful
    resilient
    adaptive
    analytical
    not quite as intelligent as I'd like to be, but
    aware of my shortcomings
    disarming
    youthful
    strong
    soft
    sexy
    brazen
    curious
    just deep enough to realize how very shallow I can be
    stressed, but
    relatively content
    curvy
    wishful that I wasn't quite so curvy
    diplomatic as needed
    and striving for extreme honesty

    -K

  • Re: Describe yourself without using...

    Tue, December 30, 2008 - 1:05 PM

    I AM
    everything else will seem true for a while, then false again
    there is a limited self and a limitless self
    I am the limitless self, yet the expression is through this limited self
    to be extremely honest, would be so speak from the limitless self as that is what I am... though the walk from the limited self... with it's baggage of mind concepts brings disorientation



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