Me and my shadow

topic posted Thu, November 13, 2008 - 3:09 PM by  Rich
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If you were part of Extreme Honesty at Tribe Refugees and would like to continue in that group you will need to rejoin.

A former tribe member and egotistical asshole became an admin there and apparently started messing with things. Before unsubbing there, he deleted the Extreme Honesty group. This shadowy individual has harrassed me in the past but I figured after a couple of years he'd let it go. His immaturity, selfishness, and general lack of respect for others has surfaced again.

Anyhow, please resign up for the new Extreme Honesty group at triberefugees.ning.com/group/...honesty . I intend the group to be there as a back up in case Tribe.net goes belly up but it does occassionally perk up with threads all on its own.

Thanks to Ms. Dynomite for putting tribe refugees together and top Wild appache for pointing out our missing group.
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Rich
Portland
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  • Re: Me and my shadow

    Thu, November 13, 2008 - 3:26 PM
    He deleted it? Whoa. That is pretty fucked up.
    • Re: Me and my shadow

      Thu, November 13, 2008 - 4:00 PM
      He's always been a charmer
      • Re: Me and my shadow

        Thu, November 13, 2008 - 6:59 PM
        ha ha ha ha ha ah aha ah aha ha ah ahha ha ha ha . . . I LOVE IT . . .
        Its a bit like a snail trail thru the network no one can erase . . .
        • Re: Me and my shadow

          Sat, November 15, 2008 - 8:46 AM
          Does Sam make any sense to anybody?

          This posts makes me wonder if he isshadow's alt, or maybe someone elses.
          • Re: Me and my shadow

            Sat, November 15, 2008 - 1:51 PM
            I'm not sure Sam even makes sense to himself. He could be an alt but he's just as likely to be random crazy dude.

            Facebook is useful in it's own way. Different than tribe but useful for coordinating with friends and as a social hub. I'd say it's more successful as a social networking site - I find tribe more like a connection of forums than a social networking site but that may just be the way I use it (though I have met some people I really enjoy on tribe that I wouldn't hesitate to meet in RL if we lived in the same city...though I suspect we'd know each other already if we did).
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    Re: Me and my shadow

    Thu, November 13, 2008 - 8:27 PM
    Danged if that doesn't sound REAL effin' familiar. I have pretty much left Refugees altogether because of it.

    Good to hear he's gone from there.
    • Re: Me and my shadow

      Thu, November 13, 2008 - 9:23 PM
      oh jeez, don't tell me there's more.

      good grief.
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        Re: Me and my shadow

        Fri, November 14, 2008 - 2:03 PM
        Yeah, Wild - there was a good dozen or so of us that just abandonned TR because of him - ended up at Facebook or back here - or other Ning networks. Just wasn't worth the BS.
        • Re: Me and my shadow

          Sat, November 15, 2008 - 8:47 AM
          >>ended up at Facebook <<

          On a related note...i'm actaully starting to like facebook.
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            Re: Me and my shadow

            Sat, November 15, 2008 - 9:02 AM
            I would have to agree with you, Rich, about Facebook. Once I got the hang of it, I rather like it. It's a different monster than here or Ning - but not bad for what it is.
            • Re: Me and my shadow

              Sat, November 15, 2008 - 9:08 AM
              did either of you give them your phone numbers so
              you could post without having to type in that code?


              that's just creepy.
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                Re: Me and my shadow

                Sat, November 15, 2008 - 12:10 PM
                Nope.

                What code?
                • Re: Me and my shadow

                  Sat, November 15, 2008 - 1:54 PM
                  Code?
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                      Re: Me and my shadow

                      Sat, November 15, 2008 - 2:04 PM
                      i got that too, wildapache, and i completely refused to enter my number...which is why i almost never post on facebook.
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                      Sat, November 15, 2008 - 2:07 PM
                      wild - I've never been asked that or anything similar by Facebook - weird! Though I do know they're randomly dismembering people with odd names and/or too many friends - they don't say anything before deleting the account but if the person contacts them they ask them to send copies of ID to prove who you are and it's your own name. So, like all online services, don't use Facebook as a repository of info not backed up elsewhere and don't forget that it's a business and the only community that exists is in the people you know (really know ;-)
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                        Re: Me and my shadow

                        Sat, November 15, 2008 - 2:09 PM
                        lol...facebook is dismembering people?
                        geez, i'm glad tribe is relatively stable these days ;o)
                        • Re: Me and my shadow

                          Sat, November 15, 2008 - 2:20 PM
                          <<facebook is dismembering people? >>

                          Wow! They are like the Lizzie Borden of social networking sites.
                          • Re: Me and my shadow

                            Sat, November 15, 2008 - 2:26 PM
                            IMO they're a lot worse than that.

                            ASSbook

                            feh


                            i only went on there to try and keep updated on Tribe as
                            it was the only place Darren would post updates, besides
                            on his Twitter account.

                            i hate it like poison.
                          • Re: Me and my shadow

                            Sun, November 16, 2008 - 5:40 PM
                            Facebook is a handy place for me to post shout outs to locals. Ie..."yo locals., I'm playing this club tonight at this time."

                            It has also proved handy for reconnecting with people I went to high school with and knew in NY.
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                              Tue, November 18, 2008 - 8:59 PM
                              hmmm - uh, somewhere along the lines i missed (prolly wasnt tribe-ing) the whole refugee thing on ning or facebook or whatever.

                              i agree with whoever-it-was that said that tribe strikes me as a good collection-of-forums... that is how i approach it. when it is down, i just dont read those forums...

                              i tried ning (but some other thing/group there - and ive long-since lost touch with that site) but it was SO much less-cohesive than tribe that i could not be bothered to try and track it.

                              facebook required something to log in that i did not have, was it a student-id-email or somesuch? ive ignored it and noone i know in RL uses it, afaict.

                              i created a myspace account awhile ago - and that is the place i use for a social-networking site and blogs and that kinda crud. it is also where i only posted my high-school info and got a few hits from folks id never even thought about in years. myspace has its problems and a certain class-system between the young-punks (who really made it popular), the commercial-entities (i do not want to read-your-poetry, tyvm), and the older-crowd (who oftentimes use it to keep-in-touch/track what youngsters are up to as well as network amongst themselves)...

                              i havent thought about shadow-walker in forever... is he still around? i dont think im tribe-friends with him anymore, tho id have to double-check... there are lots of old-timers around here and other sites that just sorta "disappear"... what happened to that cool african-american dude who used to post here (and he followed some of the adam-crap) when EH was having its dramas? whatever - i guess it is not critical, just curiousity on my part...

                              anyways - i keep hearing about tribe issues... if it goes away - i guess it will just go away... wasnt there some really important guy (tm) who used to keep this site running that left not-too-long ago? tribe is down enough times that it can be a bit frustrating - but these sites are not that critical to life - at least not to me...

                              are they (tribe/facebook/myspace/ning) really that important ? i use them like a bit-more-interactive version of television... i do not vote on those idol/fashion/dancing shows, but i do have conversations online here that serve a socializing function if im feeling lonely. but, like the proverbial parent comment "go outside and play" - if tribe/etc were to disappear, would we not just go back to bars/clubs/soccer-leagues and play again? (except maybe not at 3a like we can here.... lol)

                              anyways - thanx for the heads-up about alternate meeting-places if tribe DOES go down...

                              have fun, h.
                        • Re: Me and my shadow

                          Sun, November 16, 2008 - 12:32 PM
                          Free - Dismembering sounds so much more visceral than unsubscribing, I couldn't resist the imagery! Personally I just remember it's a for-profit corporation and, as such, not a real community platform. I like to call it Fakebook - seems more appropriate. It has it's uses but, for me anyway, it's very different than tribe or even myspace.
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                            Re: Me and my shadow

                            Sun, November 16, 2008 - 12:51 PM
                            I am with you on the imagery, Fifi!

                            Imagine the headlines "Dismemberment runs rampant at Assbook; Subscribers unhappy."

                            Guess it would be much easier to remove one's head from one's ass that way though...
                            • Re: Me and my shadow

                              Sun, November 16, 2008 - 1:13 PM
                              It would be even easier to insert one's head in one's ass if ti was dismembered from one's body! That said, the head up ass position predates social networking sites and this site isn't really much different in terms of being a private entity created for profit. I believe that cave drawings illustrating ancient head up ass techniques were recently discovered during an recent excavation of an ancient sacred social networking site (with the sacred mating dance and ritual battles being the chief activities at these sites).
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                                Re: Me and my shadow

                                Sun, November 16, 2008 - 1:37 PM
                                Oohhhhh!

                                Is that why the bulk of all those cave painting folks are so bow-legged???

                                Makes sense now!
  • Re: Me and my shadow

    Thu, November 13, 2008 - 11:46 PM
    Um yeah... Fuck me once and all that

    I am hoping with the changes to tribe.net ning will become a superfluous thing

    JSin

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